6.14.2010

WATER! WATER! WATER!




"WA-DAH! WA-DAH! WA-DAH!" you would scream with fingers pointing.
"OH WA-DAH! WA-DAH! WA-DAH!" continual screaming until we affirm your discovery of a lake, pond, swimming pool, fountain, or even puddle.

When you were about 22 months, we went back to Hong Kong and discovered your fearless love of swimming. You don't know how to hold your breath or close your eyes underwater but it doesn't stop you from getting right into the pool. You could be shivering from the cold water but if we were to take you out, NO, NO, NO! WATER! along with kicking and screaming resulted.

We took you to Tai Hang Country Club and Victoria Park swimming pools. Daddy threw you into the air and let you sink underwater for a split second. You splashed with your hands and screeched your voice full of excitement. The swimming must have been the highlight of your trip back to Hong Kong.

When we return to the States, we searched everywhere online to look for a pool for you to swim in. Luckily, Amurai's mom recommended Berkeley High School pool because the parent-baby classes, warm pool, and indoor facilities. We even went to Target to purchase a 10ft x 30 inch inflatable pool to put in the backyard for you. After several sessions, you can blow bubbles, splash hands, kick feet, lay on your back, hold onto side rail, and jump off the side of the pool.

Swimming is a very important skill. We are so thrill that you are loving it. We look forward to see you learning and growing in the water.


6.11.2010

奉主名求...AMEN


Lucas,

Starting when you don’t want your father to tuck you in anymore, mommy has been going to bed with you. You make me stay there until you fall sleep. The funny thing is mommy falls asleep way before you do most of the time. Somehow my snoring, which I like to call it heavy breathing, will calm you down and help you go to sleep. Every night, we will do a short prayer with your little hands together, you will then finish the prayer with an “AMEN”.

Yesterday when I hopped onto the bed, laid there with my arms wrapped around you, you closed your eyes and babbled for a good minute. I had no clue what you were doing until you paused, and said “AMEN”. Then, you opened your eyes and started giggling. Your little eyes gazed at me, earnestly searching for my acceptance. At that moment, I realized this little boy is constantly being influenced by everything I do and my living example can be very powerful or destructive, vice versa.

I know you are only doing this now to please me, but mommy prays that you will continually pray to God because He really wants to be your best friend. Mommy is not perfect, and I will never be. I am not the best role model which you will soon find out. I pray that you will come to know God yourself as you grow. There will be times mommy won’t be around you, and times when you don't want me around, but He will be there for you and guide you through the ups and downs in life.

Praying for your salvation,

Mom

5.05.2009

Pre-Bathtime Energy!


Pre-Bathtime Energy!


Standing after removing clothes for bath

Lucas, you are such an active baby especially now at ten months. You squirm and squirm when we take off your clothes for bathtime. Once the clothes are off, you force your way to stand up. While standing you scream with full excitement. Bath are so much fun!













5.01.2009

Peek a Boo

You always love the game: Peek-a-boo. All we have to do is hide behind our hands or behind anything and pop out our faces and you burst into laughter. Now you are starting to do it on your own with your blanket. You would cover your face with the blanket and quickly pull it down and laugh. Sometimes you can do this twenty times and still burst out laughing... so silly...








4.30.2009

Your baby months have always been full of laughters and giggles. During the tenth month, we start to see you squint when you laugh too hard or get too happy. This just makes us laugh even harder and it gets contagious. Everybody calls you the "happy baby"... laughing is much better than crying. We are thankful that you laugh much more than you cry.







4.19.2009

Distracted Eater

When we started feeding you solids or rather mushed food, it usually takes a while unless you really, really, really like the taste. The tasty food enthusiasm usually only last maybe half a bowl. When the food isn't that great... you start to wander and look everywhere for some excitement. For your information... you are difficult to feed... we have to spoon feed you milk and spoon feed you solid. No bottle for you. After battling you with five different bottle systems and another six different sippy cups... the spoon wins over. At least your healthy and growing at a good rate.






4.11.2009

Easter bunny

When we picked you up from daycare, all the kids have bunny ears! So cute and funny, nevermind that the daycare people goes to our church and bunnies have nothing to do with the actual meaning of easter.
We couldn't resist the playboy bunny image so we decided to take some pictures before bathtime of him, the bunny ears and his bathing duck.



First Library Visit

Both mommy and daddy wants baby to be an avid reader. Partly because we see the great benefits to building a person through reading and partly because we are not so good readers who wish to be better. We would like to see our children hopefully become an improved or better version of ourselves. For our children to not have to make the same mistakes or struggle as hard as we did. But this takes preparation and a lot of work on the part of the parents to raise well trained children. We hope you do not become another statistic of kids watching too much TV and not enough books. More importantly, we hope your interest in the bible keeps you from straying away from church where so many young teens leave.

To start you off, we decided to take you to the library. At this stage, you seem to like books for flipping the papers and nibbling but we cannot do that library books so we found a baby corner with huge stuff animals for you to play with. Oh well, hopefully your interest in books goes from chewing toy to actual mental nourishment.


4.08.2009

Examples of a great mommy!

Lucas, here is another great example of why your mommy is awesome!

BabyCenter posted a list of top seven ways to keep baby costs down and save for the family. More money saved means less worries in the future and more attention to help baby grow. It saddens our hearts when we sacrifice time with you because we need to make more money to provide for your material needs. It turns out your mommy has been doing everything suggested on the list and much more not mentioned. Here is the list and some comments on how mommy exceeded the recommendations:



1. Formula
Cost: $105 per month - Cost to us is near zero!
"I would have tried harder to breastfeed if I had known just how expensive formula was going to be," says one mom. Another, whose son required a pricier brand because of a milk protein allergy, says, "We spent about $500 a month on formula alone!"
Ways to save: Breastfeed for as long as you can. If you're not breastfeeding, stick with powdered formula, which costs less than ready-to-use or liquid concentrate. Buy in bulk at wholesale clubs like Costco, BJ's Wholesale Club, or Sam's Club. Sign up to receive coupons on formula manufacturers' websites to use and trade with friends.
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job breastfeeding since day one!

2. Diapers
Cost: $72 per month
"I was surprised by the range in price for diapers depending on where you purchase them — at a supermarket, pharmacy, or superstore like Target," says one mom.
Ways to save: Aside from using cloth diapers and washing them yourself, the best way to save on diapers is to buy in bulk at Costco, BJ's Wholesale Club, Sam's Club — or online from Diapers.com or Amazon. Sign up at diaper manufacturers' websites to get coupons, and stock up when diapers are on sale.
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job using diapers.com

3. Childcare
Cost: Varies
"Babysitting is $10 per hour where we live, and daycare averages $1,000 a month," says one mom. "We constantly feel in a bind financially."
Ways to save: For full-time care, consider asking a relative or friend. Family daycare centers and nanny sharing can also save cash. For occasional babysitting, trade time with a trusted neighbor or friends or hire a responsible student. If possible, try to stagger work schedules with your partner so you can each cover some of your child's care. Finally, consider enrolling in a flexible spending account for childcare expenses if your employer offers one.
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job finding family daycare with Ada popo who cares for you so much that they carry you to sleep and spoon feed milk to you when you don't take bottle.

4. Gear
Cost: Varies
"Everything costs about $100," says one mom. "After a while, that seriously adds up!"
Ways to save: Start with the basics — a good car seat, stroller, and bouncy seat, for example — and wait to buy other things. You may be able to try out a friend's activity center or swing to see if your baby likes it before buying. While it's a good idea to buy your car seat new, ask for other items as hand-me-downs and shop garage sales, community sites like Craigslist, eBay, and secondhand stores for other items. "I wish I'd bought more used gear," says one mom. "It wasn't until my baby was a few months old that I figured out how many moms would love to sell their barely used baby equipment."
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job with finding so many used gear.

5. Clothes
Cost: $59 per month
"There were times I went out to expensive stores and spent $40 on just one outfit," says one mom. "A couple of weeks later, it wouldn't fit anymore."
Way to save: Ask for hand-me-downs from friends and relatives. Get gently used items from consignment stores, thrift shops, Craigslist, and garage sales. Buy on eBay and look for store sales. Finally, treat your child's soiled clothes with stain remover or a laundry booster so they can be worn again!
Mommy Paulina is doing this all the time and with much help from grandma in HK sending bags of clothes over.

6. Food
Cost: $57 per month
"At one point, my daughter was eating seven jars of organic baby food a day at nearly $1 per jar," says one mom. "Baby food is ridiculously expensive," says another.
Ways to save: If possible, make your own baby food. "A good quality hand blender will pay for itself in about a month," says one mom. You may find that your child likes homemade food even better than jarred — and you can often make baby food out of what your family's already eating for dinner. If this doesn't work, clip coupons. "I know I should make my own, but with three kids, the convenience of buying jars tempts me," says one mom. "Portability and speed are worth something!"
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job making own puree food that makes you healthy and your skin glow.

7. Toys, books, and DVDs
Cost: $35 per month
"Some toys are priceless, but you can't know which ones your baby will love," says one mom. "I found that my baby really only loves three toys out of the 20-something I bought," says another.
Ways to save: Let your child play with safe household items. "The whisk is a big hit with my little one," says one mom. Buy secondhand, borrow books from the library, ask friends for hand-me-downs, and consider setting up a toy exchange with friends or neighbors who have babies around the same age. Finally, keep in mind that less is more — though it's easy to get excited about the latest developmental toy, many older babies prefer to play with plastic food containers, plastic water bottles, TV remotes, and other "grown-up" stuff.
Mommy Paulina is doing this - Great job finding used toys and books in excellent condition. She also found "Your Baby Can Read" educational videos so still get to watch TV and learn at the same time. Surprisingly, your favorite toy is plastic tupperware...

Special thanks to all the amazing friends and family of mommy and daddy who showered you with many gifts.